1. - It is the first religion I have ever encountered that is named after me and not its founder.
Let’s face it, you can probably count on the fingers of one hand (maybe
two) the number of people who get a spiritual path named after them. I am proud
to be one of the elect. “Sikh” or “Sikhi” means student or seeker. I know that.
And I know that I have been a seeker or student of spirituality since before I
became a Sikh.
“Sikhism or Sikhi, as Sikhs prefer to call it, is different. The name of the religion has nothing at all
to do with the names of the founders or Gurus of the movement. Nanak was the
first Guru, but I have never heard this faith called Nanakism.” Inder Jit
Singh, Professor of Anatomy, New York University.
It is a matter of fact, or belief, or faith, that all nine human Gurus, who followed the first, to the tenth, Guru Gobind Singh, were simply varied exemplars or enlightened manifestations of the divine and cosmic energy or wisdom or strength of the first, Guru Nanak. There was no differentiation made between any of them. That is exactly why they all acted in the name of Nanak, and used the eponym Nanak in all of their writings.
For my purposes, the word “Sikh” says exactly who we Sikhs are and how we should see ourselves. This word is of Sanskrit origin, meaning a student. Do we have any other purpose on this Earth than to be students of life and seekers of truth, pursuers of the divine? Our path lasts as long as we do. It is endless, just as a true learner should be always seeking the truth. Our lot is to study “God” both within ourselves and in ALL of those that we meet. Our work is never done. The journey becomes the destination.
2 - As a Sikh I am forbidden to proselytize.
There are
no missionaries in Sikhism. A Sikh does not search out people to “convert” to
his or her way of thinking. A true Sikh accepts all religions and spiritual
paths as valid and true. Attempting to convince another of the value and
rightness of the Sikh path would be tantamount to saying that my religion was
somehow better than theirs. I do of course entertain respectful curiosity and
am happy to do so by answering any and all questions if they are put politely.
I once had an acquaintance who was Mormon. He was hard working, cheerful, and serious about his spiritual life. He was also in that time of his life when it was his job to be a missionary for his faith. He understood why I was a Sikh and respected me for it. But he also felt he had to make the attempt to convert me. I remember how uncomfortable he seemed to be as he gave me a copy of the book of Mormons. His words were to the effect that, “I know you’re probably one of the last people who might convert, but here’s the book we give as part of our missionary work.” I felt as though he were doing it out of a sense of obligation to his faith and not because he knew I would somehow see the light the way he saw it.
3 - Part of Being a Sikh requires that I get up early (every morning).
This is something that made so
much sense to me since the very first moment I found out about Sikhs. It is
something I have always done. I was the first person awake in my family just
about each and every day of my childhood. It is as though I were meant to be a
Sikh from the moment I was born (at about 4 a.m. in the morning). A Sikh rises
two and a half hours (approximately) before the Sun to devote one tenth of the
day to worship consisting of reading prayers, singing the hymns of the Gurus
and meditating on God. Going to bed early also means you don't have a lot of time at night to go out and get into trouble!
4 - I save money on visits to the barbershop, on razors, shaving cream and after shave lotion (which, by the way stings and sometimes makes others cough!).
Even when I was doing it
regularly, shaving has always seemed a barbaric act. Pressing a sharp sliver of
metal against my face and throat in an effort to scrape off something (hair)
that will inevitably and immediately begin to grow back. Not only is it mildly
dangerous (bleeding does happen) but I also found it quite irritating, inducing
rashes and other outbreaks, both mild and serious. And since the hair always makes
the attempt to grow back, it was also pointless to shave it off! Sikhs believe
that since God gave us hair, there must be a good reason for it other than some
evolutionary hangover. So shaving and haircuts, I submit, contradict God’s
will.
5 - I
enjoy wearing a turban—it helps to keep my head together!
No, honest, I’m not kidding.
Everybody knows that the skull is made up of 26 bones that move and slide
against each other like cranial tectonic plates. Well, a turban exerts subtle
pressures to keep these bones in their proper place giving my brain all the
room it needs to function properly without constrictions.
6 - There’s not a whole lot to remember about what a Sikh believes.
A Sikh believes in the The Mool
Mantra, which follows:
Ek Ong Kar
– There is but One Creator
Sat Nam – God’s Identity is
Truth
Karta Purkh – God is the
Doer of ALL Things
Nir Bhao – God is without
anger, and revenge
Nir Vair – God is without
fear
Akhal Moort – God is
Undying
Sai Bhang – God is Unborn
and Self-illumined
Gur Prasad – By the Grace
of the Guru
Jaap – Meditate upon this O
my mind!
Aad Sach – It was true in
the beginning
Jugaad Sach – It is true
for ALL of creation
Hebhi Sach – It is true
even now
Nanak Hosi Bhi Sach – O
Nanak, it shall ever be true.
And that is it! Brief, to the
point and if you believe in God as a Supreme Being, undeniably true. These are
the first words of the Sikh scriptures, the Siri Guru Granth Sahib. And all the
beautiful words that follow, some 1200+ pages full are merely exposition upon
them. In different ways and by different means, the Gurus that followed Nanak
as well as a number of Muslim and Hindu holy men expound on the truths
contained therein. But the truth remains, reflected in a thousand different
beautiful ways as light projected through the many dazzling facets of a
perfectly cut diamond.
7 - If
you are a Sikh, it’s OK if you want to go dance with the Sufis, meditate
with the Buddhists, and sing hymns with the Christians, read the Koran with the Muslims and so forth.
This is one of the most enjoyable
things about being a Sikh. You may experience the uplifting aspects of any
religion or religious practice without violating your Sikh beliefs. A Sikh is
bound to respect any and all religions and their practitioners. (And it’s OK to
participate in any or all of them.) No matter what our creed, we are all
travelers to the same destination and a Sikh’s true desire is that we all
achieve the oneness that is our birthright and beliefs.
8 - I enjoy being a vegetarian. (I don’t have to be, but I can!)
Not all Sikhs are vegetarians.
Those who have taken the amrit (Khalsa vows) choose this dietary option. To be
honest, I was a vegetarian before becoming a Sikh. So this part was easy. It
also had the advantage that this was something that made perfect sense to me.
Like rising early (#3)and not shaving (#4) this seemed to point me in the
direction of Sikhism even before I ever knew what a Sikh was.
9 - Wearing
a turban and beard really helps me to be a better Sikh and a better person.
The turban and beard (for men) are
simple outward manifestations of our spiritual path as a Sikh and a Khalsa.
They (and three other Khalsa requirements—the 5 K’s) were instituted by the 10th
Sikh Guru, Gobind Singh, so that we would be readily identified as Sikhs.
There’s no going into a bar or adult movie theater for a Sikh. We are too
obvious. Also, since Sikhs are morally bound to defend the defenseless, it is
easy for the persecuted to find a defender. Since my appearance is so much a
part of who I am, who I am then represents who I must be.
10 - Drugs (recreational), alcohol and tobacco ARE bad for you; I think everyone can
agree to that. As a Sikh I am proscribed from using them.
Intoxicants of any kind, whether they are
hallucinogenic, inebriants or addictive change us into something we are really
not. They alter our personality, or our chemical makeup without improving
either in any substantial or permanent way. We might temporarily feel good or
different but there always seems to be the come down or hangover that deals a
counter blow to the previous high. Sikhs, as do many other religious paths
prefer to “get high” worshipping, praising, repeating or reading the word or
words of God.
I love being a Sikh and very proud to be one. VERY PROUD
Posted by: Jus Kaur Wirring | November 28, 2007 at 11:50 PM
Hey, nice writeup! Your first reason is a unique one that I've never thought about before. Thanks for it! :)
Posted by: SSingh | November 29, 2007 at 12:52 PM
Many of those reasons are EXACTLY why I am aSikh and have been one inside my soul since I was a child and understood the notion of what "God" is.
Posted by: laura simran kaur | April 16, 2008 at 11:16 PM
Many of those reasons are EXACTLY why I am a Sikh and have been one inside my soul since I was a child and understood the notion of what "God" is.
Posted by: laura simran kaur | April 16, 2008 at 11:16 PM
I am 45 years young.I have
been a seeker since I can remember. It is amazing how the sikh way fits my natural tendencies, my soul. It was 40 years ago , I was 5 when I experenced God everywhere and infused in everything especially in myself. Now again, having cleared enough space, I am ready to receive all blessings and broadcast them outward. Thank you Karta Purkh for the strong beacon of light that has couraged me on my way.
Posted by: Jivan Mukta Kaur | January 02, 2009 at 09:29 AM
i am proud to be part of guru gobind singh's family. I am kaur
Posted by: simran malhi | April 05, 2011 at 06:28 AM
this really helped thanks
Posted by: Fred Brown | November 18, 2011 at 08:24 AM